You did nothing wrong. You could have been his idea of a goddess and sheer perfection, and he probably would have still been looking for something more. He was wrong. He took away your choice and abused his power as a dom. Why does anyone cheat? Age old question that has no definitive answer. I know Jose may seem like your friend, but Jose is just a band-aid. I hope you are being careful. The last thing you want to do is something you may regret because you are not thinking clearly. Sending hugs your way.
Ry - Me. Panromantic demisexual with a history of polyamorist tendencies. Married to...
Matt (Hubby) - The once distant stranger that I complement beautifully. DH of 13 years and father of our four children.