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Old 04-16-2013, 12:41 AM
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I am truly sorry you were betrayed! Just remember - just because you are his sub does not mean you have to accept his mistress as a metamour or sex partner. He cheated on you. Don't let him walk all over you. Sub does not equal doormat. He will have to rebuild trust first.
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