Originally Posted by Murphy
It is a request. He hasn't made an ultimatum, but he has said if we can't forge an agreement, he isn't sure what will happen. He wants to be with me, but he wants to pursue his sexual interests.
It's a tricky one...it's like opening a door that can never be closed.
Even if he agreed not to ever mention it again and that the subject was dead...it would still be there in your head for the rest of your relationship.
Regardless of where you take things from here, I don't see how things could ever be completely the same again.