Those are good pros, so you are on the right track. It takes a bit of work and time to adapt to things. As long as she/they are being supportive and understanding, then, it will be fine.
It helps to be able to get those feelings out, and I write when I am in deep thought. You may not ever be able to get rid of these emotions permanently. They may very well pop up again, but the beauty is that, you will know how to deal with them and work through them. I consider that a pro.