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Old 04-15-2013, 06:54 PM
Murphy Murphy is offline
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Unhappy Can you die from fear?

New here. My husband just told me he wants an open marriage, and I am hurt and terrified.

I *want* him to be happy; I *want* to be the confident, sexy wife he wants to share all this with; I *want* our marriage to last....

But I am so scared, just thinking about it this morning had me crying, shaking and hyperventilating like I was being chased by a man with a chainsaw.

I read a few posts on here, but I am still having a hard time with all of this. Are there wives here who were able to work through all this? How did you lose your fear, work through feeling like you were lied to, or going to be abandoned, or being used as the consolation/backup prize?

Help!
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