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Old 04-15-2013, 06:41 PM
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Right, being poly (or poly-friendly) doesn't mean you have to be perfect. Everyone has their peculiar needs and limitations. I don't think you should just have to choke your worries down, they're not just your problem, you're in a relationship. I would keep a close eye on this partner's budding relationship with this competitive friend and put the brakes on it fast if it is beginning to overwhelm you.
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