Welcome to our forum (and I say welcome to Windego13 as well).
I hope you will enjoy your time on our site, and that it will give you some material to help you work things out with your relationship and decide what you'll want in the way of poly.
I've been here for about a year and found it a pretty worthwhile site. Hope you will too. Glad you could join us.
Love means never having to say, "Put down that meat cleaver!"