husband and wife in utah new to poly and this site
i am 22 and my husband is 23 we live in Utah and are new to the poly community. frankly im a little confused we want to add a third relationship to our marriage. we are not looking for a hook up but a serious commitment from another female to be a girlfriend to both me and my husband. how did you introduce yourselves to the poly world and what are some ways you went about finding someone for your relationship?