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Old 04-14-2013, 07:14 PM
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I concur with the other posters but want to say, besides your h's 3some fantasy, his OSO might have her feelings/pride hurt, especially if she IS attracted to you... So you need to be sensitive to that

It's good she still gets to see and fuck him. When my ex-h and I first opened our marriage, he had the 3way kumbaya, 2 wives fantasy. We had the other issue, I was attracted to our unicorn but she wasn't attracted to me! And I was the bi one who wanted more. I got nothing (except a h with heavy duty NRE) and she got a bf. I got no gf!

(Things are better now, no worries. )
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley

Mags (poly, F, 62)
Pixi (poly, F, 40) together since 2009
My bf Kahlo (poly-friendly, M, 45) since August 2017
Master, (mono, M, 36), Pixi's bf for 5 years
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