Good morning Castle33, I enjoyed reading about your relationship and glad things are going well. I guess the part that bothers me is that my husband and I are not "unicorn hunting" we havent even started to look. We are just reading up on the ins and outs of what we want so that when we do start actively looking that we are doing it the right way. The terms being used are things that he or I have never even heard of before, which is why we are trying our best to look into everything fully before we even start.
I do understand the concerns of others but they fail to realize that I am fully aware that we have no idea what we are doing... which is why I am on hear listening and reading.