Originally Posted by castle33
hello op. i'm a sub and my husband is my dom. we met with the goal of having a D/s relationship. i totally understand how it feels when folks think that it's a bad set up. also, i have run into my share of problems. the poly world is very open but you will still find others that can not possibly get that what you have is what you want. i have learned to listen to the good advice and ignore anything said in ignorance.
No one here is opposed to her being a sub to her Master. It's been addressed and cleared up. The issue is the unicorn hunting bit. There are plenty of happy kinky poly people here. But few happy unicorns. Look around.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
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