Originally Posted by rolypoly
She said recently that she was beginning to reevaluate the men she sleeps with. She doesn't fall in love with men, she just fucks them. So, she doesn't choose lovers based on emotional intelligence, strength of character, standards of self-care. She just fucks them.
This bothers me a lot.
Yeah...I don't fall in love with everyone I chose to be sexually involved with, but I am still picky about my partners, I need to be able to have actual conversations with them, respect them, not worry about them doing something stupid (because I don't have sex with people I don't care about), and not get sucked into annoying drama because of them being part of my life. If anything, I'm more likely to overlook some problems if it's someone I'm falling in love with that I would get quickly annoyed with in someone who was more of a fuckbuddy.