Your dynamic will change big time.
What if your "third" can't stand you. But your husband is head over heals with her. And she for him. Are you going to be ok with that? What if she wants all of his time and your husband gets all caught up in NRE that he focuses on her.
Are you two willing to date other people without involving the other?
What if you fall for another man is that allowed?
I go on and on.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.
Last edited by Dagferi; 04-13-2013 at 03:26 AM.