Welcome to our forum.
Small world, I have a friend who spent a few years in Finland.
I hope you will feel free to speak the concerns that are on your mind; I'm sure we can help.
Sounds like you have a nice V relationship going. I'm one of the partners in a V relationship myself; things were tough for us in the early years, but we got things worked out alright.
Glad you could join us; if I can help with your other posts I will.