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Old 04-13-2013, 12:46 AM
ThatGirlInGray ThatGirlInGray is offline
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Happy Birthday!!

Originally Posted by Anneintherain View Post
It's also OK if in two months you still aren't sure one way or another and don't HAVE a final answer you're comfortable with, cut yourself some slack!
^^This. I think it'd be okay to treat it as more like a check-in if the answer that works for you at that point in time is something like, "Not at this time. How about if we revisit the idea in 6 months?" (or however long works for you). That's a firm FOR NOW answer, but leaves the door open to future possibilities (without either of you driving yourself crazy wondering "When??").

Hope you have/had a GREAT time tonight!!
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