Im actually kind of excited about the change. Like I said before we both work on the road. Sometimes Im home, sometimes he's home, sometimes we are both home. I think " a third" would have plenty of alone time with both of us. I enjoy the thought of him sharing time with a fun loving person, just like I enjoy the thought of me sharing time with a fun loving person.
K is pretty level headed and express his discontent quite well. I dont see us just dumping anyone. At least not without giving it some serious thought and I am hoping that this person will get to know both of us befriend us both before deciding what she would like to do.
And yes 19 years had been some work and a lot of give and take....
One of my favorite things that I think keeps us going is his ability to know when to say "talk to me" and mean it!!