Fluid bonding at this point - you've been involved for, what, a month or so? - seems really premature. This is super new. He sounds fabulous and things are off to a great start but y'all have just started getting to know each other intimately (physically, emotionally, mentally). There is no harm to talking about it and learning about each other's partners, sexual histories, risk tolerances and all that. But whoa nelly! Even revisiting it in two months time seems to be a fast timetable. This is total obviousness but just because everything else happened fast with this relationship doesn't mean fluid bonding should happen quickly or ever.