Welcome to our forum.
I can see how things are confusing right now as this is all very new. Take it slow and try to communicate a lot along the way. I think it's just a strange idea right now because polyamory is such an unknown and unconventional concept. You really have to build your own familiarity with it.
Glad this site has been helpful so far; hope it will continue to be.
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