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Old 04-11-2013, 09:43 PM
kkxvlv kkxvlv is offline
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I have no experience with this situation but it sounds like what you need to ask for is the freedom to experience, talk about, and work through your feelings without them jumping to fix it by pulling away from their connection or declaring you can't share them. You don't know that yet so don't let them tell you what you can handle. You're just having a bit of a freak out and need the time to figure it out for yourself. Something has changed and change can be jarring. I would imagine it would be especially jarring when it happens right in front of your face during a threesome. Its ok to need some time to adjust. Allow yourself that freedom to feel too.
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