I have identified my main concern:
Since this started, I have had all of the intense feelings focused on me from my 2 partners. I worry that now they have these new and very exciting feelings for each other that they will lose their intensity for me. That I will somehow be left behind.
I don't know that this is an irrational fear or not. I can't control their feelings....and if they do take a turn for the two of them primarily instead of me, I can't do anything about that. But I would be devastated. Not sure what if anything to do about that.
Any advice welcome.
franchescasc-33, bi female, likely monogomish formerly in triad relationship with:
FJ-36, married 15 yrs
MD-35, gf for 8 months
Currently dating SM, male, 40, monogamous