Pleasure to meet you and welcome, welcome, welcome.
I hope that you find the forum useful, and that you feel right at home. We have all walked different paths and continue to do so, but I am sure someone has been where you are. We are here to offer support, give advice, and understand each other in a way that society never will.
I wish you well in your journey of discovering who you are and what you want now. You know that being mono is not for you, and that is an excellent starting point. I hope all is well your way.