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Old 04-11-2013, 02:16 AM
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Originally Posted by choctaw103 View Post
Everyone deserves to be happy, no matter how outrageous your requirements may be to someone else.

And there's the bottom line. Sure, everyone has the right to happiness. If they feel that they shouldn't have to compromise on their requirements then fine. Just don't get upset if it takes you longer to find someone that feels THEY can be happy with all of YOUR requirements. You aren't looking for a puppy that will learn the rules of YOUR house. You are looking for people! If you don't want to be flexible in YOUR requirements, hemming and hawing about how hard it is to find someone is kind of ridiculous and that is what is so frustrating to so many people here.
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