Vix as a direct response, Jilly and I do have two different logins here, but it amazes me when we go to a site like okc how our responses are eerily similar. I enjoy everyone as an individual, but we have the same vantage point in almost every situation, and all this experience has done has driven that point home.
Reallynicepeople to respond directly to you I would say that you are fine in what you posted because you have a set ideal of what you want, be it flawed or not, that is your perspective and you are entitled to it. I wish you all the luck in the world because what you want is basically what we are looking for, a couple/fem who wants to be friends and let things progress naturally. More power to you, I hope you find exactly what you are looking for. Everyone deserves to be happy, no matter how outrageous your requirements may be to someone else.