Greetings to you Donna, and to Jeff too. I hope you will enjoy your time on our site. You can visit our Dating & Friendships subforum
if you like, we have many interesting boards and threads, and you are welcome to post any thoughts or questions you have at any time.
As far as finding local poly people in your own area, I wonder if something will turn up if you google "Indiana polyamory." If not, I have other links I can suggest to you if you're interested.
Sounds like you and Jeff have been on quite a journey together, discovering more about yourselves and each other. I hope you will find Polyamory.com to be a comfy haven where you can learn more and share and help other people as well.
Glad to have you aboard.