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Old 04-10-2013, 03:30 AM
JaneQSmythe JaneQSmythe is offline
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Originally Posted by hyperskeptic View Post
She thinks of me as being an exception, as we've been together more than two decades and are still investing in one another, for all our ups and downs.

So, I now find myself consoling Vix even as she turns to me for advice and perspective on what to do.

I guess it's a good thing I got my own head turned around, so I'm in a position to be useful to her. really sweet.

I actually view both of my boys as "exceptions"...or I wouldn't be with them. (I may have mentioned it before, but I really don't like 'people' as a rule...)

MrS is very good at stepping outside of himself and looking and advising me about my reactions regarding Dude...I appreciate this more than I can express.

Me: poly bi female, in an "open-but-not-looking" Vee-plus with -
MrS: hetero polyflexible male, live-in husband (23+ yrs)
Dude: hetero poly male, live-in boyfriend (4+ yrs) and MrS's best friend
Lotus: poly bi married (to TT) female, "it's complicated" relationships with Dude/JaneQ/MrS (1+ years)
+ "others" = FBs, FWBs, lover-friends, platonic G/BFs, boytoys, etc.

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