Originally Posted by BoringGuy
I want to explain that compersion is not something you can " achieve" or "accomplish". It's something you feel, not something you think.
Thank you BG. This is insightful. I only use this terminology because it is something that my wife says. Maybe not exactly in those terms...but when i encourage her to try and discuss anything that is evidently difficult...the reply is often: "I can't right now...but i'm working on it".