D/s dynamic messing with things?
I am good friends with W and want to try a relationship, and I have my spouse's support in this. W is poly and a sub, the problem is W's dom (let's call M), while encouraging W to find another partner so long as said partner is approved, M is not exactly willing to communicate with me so I can obtain that permission. It's been a rough road so far, but I have not gotten a 'yes' or a 'no'. W says M has actually given permission for everything and anything so long as it's never talked about between them. That seems really confusing to me. I am not interested in messing with their dynamic at all, but I wonder: should I keep trying to respect their relationship by trying to communicate and get permission only to get ignored, or should I trust W's words about technically having permission and give it a go?
Last edited by Rix; 04-09-2013 at 07:49 PM.