Could this "poly hell" article
help you articulate to husband what you need from him to feel better about your relationship with him? Maybe if that could help ID problem areas, it could then help point toward calmer conflict resolution ideas?
I could be wrong... but to me it sounds like you could be struggling with the "demotion" paragraphs in the article. Your old agreements changed to include emotional deepening with new
partners but didn't sound like it covered how to cope with resulting changes in the shared established
Maybe you are feeling out on a limb and need to feel connected and reassured by partner? Keep trying to sort it out.