Aren't all of those scenarios you mentioned something that the quad would have to work out for themselves based on their individual needs and wants?
I guess what I am trying to ask is, what is the difference between defining boundaries and expectations between 4 people and 2 other than two more personalities to consider. I just believe that everyone needs different things and so long as those are for the most part met or worked out, what difference does quantity make?
I have read here that people have outside relationships (I.e. secondary). Does that mean that you would be less concerned about their well being simply because they are secondary? I just have a hard time understanding because I envision in my head a relationship where everyone has equal say and the same satisfaction and happiness in it.
I suppose being new to this that I may be being naive, but that is why I am asking the questions.
So flame on I guess. Educate me.