Originally Posted by dshaz6344
We are finding that on okcupid with being honest about our poly relationship in our profile, we get alot of lookers but for the most part we are getting snubbed. Any advice?
Yes i have some advice. You're getting "snubbed" because you are searching as a couple, you use one profile for two people, and you are writing in all plural pronouns "our", "we", etc. If you have narrowed your search by other criteria such as location, age, gender, appearance, interests, etc. then it's no wonder your dating pool is virtually zero on that site.
What i have said here is not new news. There may be a few individuals on this site that perceive this advice as "anti-couple bigotry", but i'm just telling it like it is. You DID ask for it.