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Old 04-07-2013, 11:17 PM
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Originally Posted by Dirtclustit View Post
but back on track with this post, rather than standing his ground, I would think he could get something closer to exactly what he wants if he approached it with hyper-respect, more along the lines of no questions asked, I will address your concern by completely eliminating the problem, maybe even a full nuther step back, as if to say, not only will I not kiss someone in public I am going to chill on dating for a week because You need to feel secure.
That's the clarification I was hunting for. "Respect" in this regard is "deference" or "humble submission".

I disagree fundamentally and absolutely.

This is even worse than the situation of compromise. At least in compromise everyone gets a shit deal (just an equal amount of shit for everyone). In this approach it is just subjugation to anothers will... gross.
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