Hi all. I am not really a stranger.
Just dropped back in today to see how everyone is doing.
Way back in june last year I decided to not be in any relationship at all (or rather, just be in one with me and my kids) for a whole year. That has gone by in a whizz and is nearly over.
I figured that being on my own sexually is just as valid a state of being as being in a mono relationship or a poly one. I think it was the right decision for me. Did a lot of thinking and also spent a lot of time having the freedom NOT to have to think (about relationships) which was more important.
I am quite happy at the moment, I have got on top (almost) of financial stuff and am quite settled in a new place to live in the town. I see lots of my kids and they can come visit and stay over whenever.
Wondering whether to get back out there and what sort of relationship would suit me.
"The secret of life, though, is to fall seven times but to get up eight times"