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Old 04-07-2013, 07:27 AM
vodkafan vodkafan is offline
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Default Hello again

Hi all. I am not really a stranger.
Just dropped back in today to see how everyone is doing.
Way back in june last year I decided to not be in any relationship at all (or rather, just be in one with me and my kids) for a whole year. That has gone by in a whizz and is nearly over.
I figured that being on my own sexually is just as valid a state of being as being in a mono relationship or a poly one. I think it was the right decision for me. Did a lot of thinking and also spent a lot of time having the freedom NOT to have to think (about relationships) which was more important.
I am quite happy at the moment, I have got on top (almost) of financial stuff and am quite settled in a new place to live in the town. I see lots of my kids and they can come visit and stay over whenever.
Wondering whether to get back out there and what sort of relationship would suit me.
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