Originally Posted by Malfunktions
First off, you say you've realized just how mono you are, are you working past this? Or are you going to attempt to remain very dead set on mono?
Not sure if it's what you intended, but "working past this" comes across to me like the OP should try to stop being mono, as though it's a bad thing that should be fixed.
There's nothing wrong with being mono, even within a non-monogamous relationship. Perhaps "this" referred to the jealousy, but that's not how it read to me.