Originally Posted by nycindie
I don't know what "monogamish" means, really
Ugh. It's another one of those stupid words invented by people who need every behaviour to fit into a clean little box.
As I understand the term, coined by The Great Dan Savage, it describes couples who are mostly monogamous. They have flings and random encounters every now and then, but nothing serious.
It doesn't even apply here. This is one of the reasons I hate "ending the conversation" at the label. Terminology like "monogamish" should only be used to introduce a topic and get the discussion started. Since R is not monogamish by the accepted definition, perhaps the OP can fill us in on what that means to her, assuming it's even her word?