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Old 04-07-2013, 02:56 AM
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Wow, from a couple of threesomes to "I love you." That's fast. Sounds like the euphoria of oxytocin and endorphins to me. And, yeah, it also sounds like you were played by both W and H, so they wouldn't have to feel any guilt about cheating. And now turning it all into "K is narcissistic and controlling" gets you on their side and forgetting their betrayal of you. Ouch.
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