I truly have no one to apologize to. I just don't want my poor choice of words to be misconstrued.
My opinion on labels is they are bullshit. People are people. We like what we like the way we like it. Our likes can vary and change all throughout life. Anyone who holds fast to or gets offended by a label should mellow out.
I'm mellow, and if I really did offend anyone at all, I didn't mean to.