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Old 01-11-2010, 05:03 AM
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BlueAngel, welcome to the world of polyamory and to the forum.

I can offer you some reading by a very good writer called Franklin.

Polyamory for the Monogamous: http://www.xeromag.com/fvmonopoly_existing.html
Things to Consider Before You Enter a Relationship as a Secondary: http://www.xeromag.com/fvsecondary.html
Guide to Dating a Couple: http://www.xeromag.com/fvpolydatingcouple.html

Those have some excellent advice, I feel, for people in your sort of situation.

I hope things go well for you!
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