Originally Posted by Lynn
She approached him knowing he had a relationship with you. Then when he told her he was poly, she wasn't sure she could do that. Am I the only one who reads this as, she was willing to cheat but not overjoyed about sharing, with everything out in the open?
I totally saw it this way too... My hubby and I had something like this happen with his last gf. It started much like this with her not sure about poly but accepting his advances at work knowing he was married. She also had a boyfriend and at first said she would love to accept being poly and being out in the open but in the end never could tell her bf and finally told my hubby that she would just as soon cheat than be honest. My hubby ended it promptly upon being told this bit of information.