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Old 04-05-2013, 10:02 PM
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Originally Posted by ATX View Post
How do we explain or express our wants and needs to our prospects?
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Originally Posted by ATX View Post
He says it isn't the sex that attracts him but sex organs. He says he doesn't find males attractive, but useful in a sexual way. This is not to say he doesn't understand that entering into a polyamorous relationship will include a relationship with another male. He just wants that to be a friendship. A straight friendship. He says he enjoys his intimacy with me and has no desire to kiss or cuddle with a man.
Originally Posted by ATX View Post
My question is: Is he straight and just likes being fucked by and messing around with guys occasionally or is he a certain degree of bi?
Is the classification the important part? He obviously has some urges that are not heterosexual... that would qualify as some range of bi-sexual to me. Though I'm not really sure how that helps him deal with the changes he is going through.

In order to find a community that is a bit more related to what you are doing you might want to use the Google to look up some terms. Start with polyamory, and bisexuality, for example.
Me: male, 43, straight, non-hierarchical, independent
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