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Old 04-05-2013, 02:44 AM
Arius Arius is offline
Join Date: Apr 2013
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Another thing this thread brought up for me is the importance patriarchy places on penetration.

For example, in many cultures [including prison culture] it is generally only considered "gay" to be on the receiving end of a penis. Also, the verbs for sex are typically gendered in a way that sex is always something that the person penetrating is doing to the person being penetrated. (Eg. Sam fucked sally; sally was fucked by sam. Ernie gave it hard to Burt; Burt took it up the a**. etc.)

So maybe that partially explains why I don't feel threatened by my partner having sex with a woman.
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