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Old 04-04-2013, 11:07 PM
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Originally Posted by kdt26417 View Post
I'm wondering if a checklist could even be useful, where she could circle "Y" or "N" next to each item. If the checklist was reprintable, you could make another copy in several months or whatever and see if any of the "Y's" or "N's" had changed.

Sounds like you're off on the right foot with this conversation, in any case.

There is a checklist by Tristan Taormino, author of Opening Up, which is free to download at her site. Here is the link to her Download page, click on "Open Relationship Checklist" and it opens as a PDF: There is other good stuff to read together there, too.
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