For me, the best way to get over a break-up has always been keeping busy. Go out with friends, do hobbies, meet new people... anything to keep from sitting around feeling sorry for myself.
The pain fades gradually, but it takes time.
Sometimes it helps to put their picture on the wall and throw darts at their face. A little passive aggressive perhaps, but fun nonetheless...
Gralson: my husband. Auto: my girlfriend.
Zoffee: Auto's husband. Cue: Zoffee's boyfriend. Bookie: Cue's wife.
"A real relationship doesn't properly begin until the NRE burns away. That's when you have to start dealing with this person as an all-around human being, replete with irritating little habits. When disillusion sets in, love can begin."