For me, the best way to get over a break-up has always been keeping busy. Go out with friends, do hobbies, meet new people... anything to keep from sitting around feeling sorry for myself.
The pain fades gradually, but it takes time.
Sometimes it helps to put their picture on the wall and throw darts at their face. A little passive aggressive perhaps, but fun nonetheless...
Gralson: my husband (works out of town).
Auto: my girlfriend (lives with her husband Zoffee).
The most dangerous phrase in the English language is "we've always done it this way."