Originally Posted by SweetSensations
About 45 minutes later I am preped and can handle rough. He was so interested in showing me good lovin he forgot or his mind was in a different space. No biggie it may be part of claiming his territory. I adore him anyway and it won't kill me to be sore.
So he sees you as "his territory"? You're ok with that? Is there a D/s dynamic to your relationship with him? It won't "kill" you to be sore, but do you WANT to be sore? Some people do like being sore after sex because it reminds them of the great sex they had. But it doesn't sound like you really enjoyed yourself. It sounds like you're tolerating this treatment but would rather have it done another way.