Reason leads us to care and to shed egocentric mindsets that cause or exacerbate jealousy, shame, pride, hate, fear, greed and mistrust. Reason can even cleanse us of our superstitions if we'd only choose to be open and honest with ourselves. How else can we be open and honest with others?
I chose 'Utopian' because I want to live in a Utopian society. I don't hold out much hope that it will happen in my lifetime but I do at least have hope that it will happen.
In the mean time I just try to live with the integrity required of all of us to make it possible.
The same devotion to reason I believe is key in having successful poly relationships. I even think that the poly community may play a big roll in making this a world worth living in.
To the ever expanding circles