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Old 04-04-2013, 07:53 AM
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Originally Posted by Fiona View Post
I don't know who he is anymore. And yet I still want things to be better. This is so confusing and agonizing.
First things first, you need to accept that you can't change another person. All you can change is yourself.

It's not uncommon for people to say one thing at the beginning of a new relationship, and then throw that all out when they think they've "got you." Then they pull all kinds of manipulative bullshit to keep you around, letting their true colours show.

Originally Posted by AutumnalTone View Post
Uh...whut? Why are you still with this person? That is never acceptable in a healthy relationship.
Diddo. Add that to his sexual behaviour, which basically amounts to another form of abuse (endangering your health), and this guy has got to go.
As I am sure any cat owner will be able to tell you,
someone else putting you in a box is entirely different
from getting into a box yourself.
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