If they really wanted to save the relationship, they would have changed their behaviour to meet your needs.
They can beg and plead, but they can't stop you from leaving. It's not up to them. It takes two people to agree to be in a relationship, but it only takes one person to choose to end it.
This whole time you've been talking to us, all you've talked about is how much you want to leave. So what's stopping you, really? There must be something holding you back. It's clear you want to leave and you don't see any hope for salvaging the relationship, but you're still there, so there must be some reason?
Find that reason and deal with it so you can make a clean getaway.
Gralson: my husband (works out of town).
Auto: my girlfriend (lives with her husband Zoffee).
The most dangerous phrase in the English language is "we've always done it this way."
Last edited by SchrodingersCat; 04-04-2013 at 07:53 AM.