Originally Posted by BoringGuy
ETA: besides, FoL has said that she is not poly after all...
...even though that still doesn't mean the moderator said she shouldn't "be here".
Incorrect. I have chosen not to slap a label on myself like a can of soup. I believe in it. I practised and lived it. I believe you can love more than one person. I did it for years and have believed and did that since my teen years. It was not some experiment gone wrong. Poly is part of me but not the main thing that identifies me. I do not believe I have to have x amount of relationships to be happy. I guess my beliefs are different than most. I do not have the urge to seek something more or suppress this part of me to sustain happiness.