Originally Posted by crisplove
My first thoughts are openness, trust, and courage. I need to be considered his girlfriend publicly and privately. Not, other woman girlfriend, but girlfriend girlfriend.
I don't want this to come off as a girly, romantic, fairy tale notion. For me, it's a matter of integrity and sharing lives. What I want is someone to share my life with.
I know I only have an online relationship with T, but damn if this didn't make a HUGE difference for us. We went from being publicly "friends" to being publicly "lovers" and it absolutely spiked our relationship in a tremendously positive way.
I highly recommened it being included in your conditions for saying yes.