View Single Post
Old 04-01-2013, 10:53 PM
kdt26417's Avatar
kdt26417 kdt26417 is offline
Official Greeter
Join Date: Apr 2012
Location: Yelm, Washington
Posts: 14,152

Good points TGIG. I had to learn that when my lady vents to me about the other guy in our V (she's the hinge), it's just that -- a vent. She doesn't need me to fix the problem, defend her against him, or even say anything bad about him. In fact in a lot of cases, it seems to help her if I suggest what might be his perspective on the disagreement. So being someone's "listening ear" can be an art form sometimes!
Love means never having to say, "Put down that meat cleaver!"
Reply With Quote