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Old 01-10-2010, 08:35 PM
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I never once thought that you might be trying to define it for others.
And FTR, I don't see this as "defining" anything either. Just as a sort of lightbulb understanding of what poly is in your life and how it makes you feel.
Oh, I love that, the "Lightbulb Moment"! Yes, that was what I meant.

The person who expressed this concern wasn't calling me out, it was a real concern. She wanted to make sure that I was explaining and conveying what I meant because it could be read different ways. It wasn't someone being all hypersensitive about labels and such. It WAS motivated out of concern, not correction, and I appreciate it.
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